Fathers

This week we talked about the important roles of a mother and a father. We wrote a paper about the importance of fatherhood and I was able to look back on the impact that my father had in my life. Fathers are a vital part in a child's development.

We also talked a lot about mothers working outside of the home. Fortunately, I have never really had to know what it felt like to not have my mom home as soon as I walked through the door from school. But I do understand that sometimes it has to happen or it has been chosen that it would be best for the family.

I really appreciate the way that I was raised and the way that my parents taught me. I appreciate their love and care for me.

I hope you all have an amazing Saturday!

Communicate!

I was learning about communication in two of my classes. I'm definitely communicated.....Anyway! Communication is key in ANY relationship. We need to remember that we communicate both verbally and non-verbally. It is also important to remember that we each have different ways of communicating and different communication patterns.

Family Crisis

 Throughout life, we will all go through troubles. The Lord is going to judge you in the midst of them. The trials that we experience throughout life shape who we are.  In another talk by Dieter F. Uchtdorf he explains that adversity will be inevitable. He encourages the young women to look at their favorite fairy tale. They will almost definitely see a trial before the princess receives her happily ever after. Thinking about this, there are going to be so many trials and tribulations in a marriage. It is important to realize that going into a marriage. I feel like so often we see young women going into marriage with the thought that their lives will suddenly be perfect. This is not the case. Stress that may occur as a newly married couple or just as a couple in general may include the following:

1. Financial stress
2. Loss of a loved one
3. Abuse
4. Relocation
5. Communication
6. Loss of jobs

I remember being about 11 years old, and my father got a new job and we had to move to another city four hours away where I would have no friends. The first year after we moved was the hardest for my family. However, we found that the event that we once found as a crisis, actually strengthened and improved our living and our relationship. Today, I am so grateful for that move. It has shaped me into who I am and I have met so many people who will eternally effect me. When we go through family trials, we need to know that there is a reason for it.

The Importance of Intimacy

I forgot to make a post last week so here it is! Last week was awkward.....Let's be honest. We learn about the importance of sexual intimacy within marriage and the importance of abstinence before marriage. I think that my favorite part about last week was Brother Williams getting tomato red when sharing information about this topic with us :) Some of the statistics involving those who are sexually active before marriage are shocking. The rate of teenage pregnancy is on the rise. It is important to remember the covenants we make between you, your spouse, and the Lord.